elogind is bad lol, lets get rid of it. i use devuan.

* first:
sudo apt install dummy-logind

* in .xsessionrc:
if [ -z "$XDG_RUNTIME_DIR" ]; then
	XDG_RUNTIME_DIR="/tmp/$(id -u)-runtime-dir"
	mkdir -pm 0700 "$XDG_RUNTIME_DIR"
	export XDG_RUNTIME_DIR
fi

export PIPEWIRE_RUNTIME_DIR="/tmp/pipewire_runtime"

* in /etc/boot.d/pipewire:
#!/usr/bin/bash
export PIPEWIRE_RUNTIME_DIR="/tmp/pipewire_runtime"
mkdir -p "$PIPEWIRE_RUNTIME_DIR"
nohup pipewire &> /dev/null &
while true; do
	if [ -S "$PIPEWIRE_RUNTIME_DIR/pipewire-0" ]; then
		break
	fi
	sleep 1
done
nohup wireplumber &> /dev/null &
nohup pipewire-pulse &> /dev/null &